- The low self-esteem of children is a reflection of a program of abandonment, which arises from the moment we are born.
- How do I know that my child has this problem and what to do?
- At night help him to pray the Guardian Angel so that he entrusts himself to God and through his little angel he keeps him spiritually protected.
The low self-esteem of children is a reflection of a program of abandonment, which arises from the moment we are born and we feel that we are detached from the comfort of our mother’s womb, later they remove me from her chest and when I suffer the most is when I am left alone in the nursery with strange people and I see how my mother moves away from my.
The power of the mother in the child is so important that when the child feels that they are not paying attention to him he feels an emptiness and generates low self-esteem, which may be reflected in tantrums, loneliness or bad behavior with other children. This is the child’s way of expressing his dissatisfaction because he was apparently abandoned.
One as a parent, of course you never realize that this is going through the mind of a young child, because we are immersed in bigger situations such as work, housework or other activities. Until our little one grows up and has to socialize is when we realize his low self-esteem.
Then we realize that he doesn’t want to go to parties, he doesn’t play with anyone at recess, he doesn’t have friends. As we grow older this affects that infant with an abandonment wound, a perception in his mind that Mom did not stay with him because perhaps it was not enough.
In adults, this is mainly reflected in the fact that throughout his life he will not want to have stable partners because in his subconscious mind he believes that if he makes strong ties with his partner in the end they will also abandon him and, of course, his rational system will not it allows your person to go into such stress, thus generating what we commonly call self-sabotage.
How to help your child with low self-esteem
How do I know if my child has this program or injury? Commonly, a child with the perception of abandonment always seeks validation from mother, generating even a codependency for everything she does.
Mom has to see her space first and approve it so that the child feels comfortable. At night they tend to have nightmares looking for mom to be there to comfort them. They generate distracting fears that sometimes become so real that mother has only to stay to sleep with the child.
Of course, each case in particular has its variants. As fear is a mental, emotional, physical and spiritual program, to counteract it and increase the safety of our children we can do these techniques.
Give your child roles that make him feel important at home. Share a mother and child diary of events in which they have been brave and then give them a reward for their bravery.
Reinforce an anchor of love for him, like a doll that is his “super powerful friend” so that he can distribute his fears with him. And most importantly, at night to help him pray the Guardian Angel so that he entrusts himself to God and through his little angel he keeps him spiritually protected.
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