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Amor y otras cosas: Infidelity and Sexuality in a Relationship

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  • José Luis López Velarde provides information about infidelity and sexuality within a couple.
  • A relationship is never static; it is a constant evolution of the participants.
  • The concept of infidelity could vary from couple to couple, but what is important is communication.

Today, on Amor y otras cosas, we’re going to explore the fascinating relationship between infidelity and sexuality within a couple.

I am José Luis López Velarde, a psychologist and sexologist with over 12 years of experience in helping people build and maintain dream relationships.

Infidelity is a complex issue that deserves our attention. To begin, let’s define what infidelity is. Essentially, infidelity involves violating an agreement, whether explicit or implicit, within a romantic partnership.

Sometimes, the expectations of each partner differ, which can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. It is important to communicate and clarify these expectations to prevent future problems.

The Change in Sexuality in a Relationship

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The sexuality in a relationship is dynamic and evolves over time.

Although age can influence certain aspects due to hormonal changes, most of what happens in a couple’s sex life is related to the roles they assume and the rituals they create around their relationship.

When couples start their relationship, they dedicate time and effort to prepare for intimate moments.

They bathe, use perfume, choose the right clothes, and plan activities that foster intimacy. However, as the relationship progresses and they begin living together, roles change, and new challenges arise.

The Changes in Roles in Life as a Couple

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When couples start living together, roles change, often adding roles related to home care. This may include tasks like cleaning, cooking, and keeping the house in order.

These role changes can affect the sexual dynamics in the relationship, as new responsibilities and tensions are introduced.

It is crucial to recognize how roles have evolved throughout the relationship and how this has affected the couple’s sex life.

Often, the sexual energy that was once dedicated to the relationship is diverted to other channels, such as fantasies, masturbation, reading erotic novels, or even contemplating other people.

Exploring Fantasies and Sexual Desires

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It is essential for couples to talk openly and honestly about their sexual desires and fantasies.

This can help prevent infidelity, as it allows for new ways to satisfy those needs together. Communication is key to building a deeper and more satisfying sexual relationship.

Infidelity can be the result of not addressing these needs and desires within the relationship.

If both members of the couple can talk openly about their fantasies, they can find creative ways to explore them together without resorting to infidelity.

What is Considered Infidelity?

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We must bear in mind that the perception of what constitutes infidelity varies among couples.

Some people may consider certain actions to be infidelity, while others may not see them in the same light.

It’s important for couples to clearly define their boundaries and expectations.

Some examples of actions that may be considered infidelity include: sexually fantasizing about other people; flirting or having sexually suggestive conversations with third parties; viewing pornography or masturbating without the knowledge or consent of the partner, and having physical or sexual contact with someone outside the relationship.

The Importance of Communication

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Open and honest communication is crucial to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts in a relationship.

Couples should discuss their sexual boundaries and expectations and be willing to negotiate and compromise.

If infidelity has already occurred, it is essential to address the underlying reasons behind it and work together to rebuild trust and intimacy.

Sometimes, infidelity can be a sign of deeper problems in the relationship that must be resolved for the couple to move forward.

Conclusion

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Infidelity and sexuality in a couple are closely related, and communication is the key to addressing these issues effectively.

Recognizing changes in roles and sexual needs throughout the relationship can help couples maintain a strong and satisfying connection.

If infidelity has occurred, it may be necessary to seek the help of a mental health professional to overcome the pain and rebuild the relationship.

Ultimately, open communication and mutual commitment are essential for building and maintaining a healthy and happy partnership. I am José Luis López Velarde, and I bid you farewell for now and thank you for your attention. Until next time!

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